Saturday, August 30, 2014

Moving The Girl Downstairs

This transition was a labor of love. This room of the house was the worst off when we bought it. The sliding glass doors allowed it to be completely shut off from the rest of the house. It had such a horrendous smell of dog urine that we had to open the windows and exterior door (which is now removed) and let it air out before we could even enter it. A whole lot of bleach and several mopping sessions made it inhabitable. Even still, we didn't really use it for anything but storage and a place for the dog's kennel. I don't have a single "before" pic of the room as we used it. I can only assume it's because we never really knew what to even call it. It was such an odd space and not one I never decorated it or used it daily. Due to the sliding glass doors, the home appraiser when we purchased the house wouldn't allow this 13'x15' room to count towards our square footage. Not only was it weird and hard to explain, but it didn't increase the value of our home. The odd space actually decreased the value.

After a lot of hard work and very little money, we have a wonderful space that she LOVES.  We are so thankful to Richard for helping so much.  Anneliese loves her "princess doors" and still thanks us regularly for her new room and is SUPER eager to give a tour to anyone who visits.  
First thing's first, remove sliding glass door
I had to retape/mud/sand/texture all the seams due to them popping free
removed exterior sconces and replaced with girlie interior sconces :)

Paint($10 mistint) is dry, time for carpet and padding

I installed this myself (HARD WORK!) with a remnant from NFM

Little girl approved

View outside her window BEFORE
After, cleaned up and planted some flowers outside her windows

The flowers are right outside

moving furniture in

Little girl must have, lacy curtains
This is as "made" as her bed gets :)

Above her bed
Beautiful French doors from bedroom side

Beautiful French doors from living room
After all that, I was actually sad her first night down there.  The empty room upstairs served as a reminder that she was no longer an infant or toddler needing to be near mom and dad.  Instead she is a big girl, in a big room, downstairs with all the big kids :)

Redeemed...Creating Value Where There Was None

Not very often does a home renovation illicit feelings of redemption and deep spiritual thoughts about how God takes our stories/lives and gives us purpose and meaning. 

We bought this house 3 years ago October.  If you were to come over and take a tour today you would see very little evidence of abandoned house we found in a neighborhood we didn't realize even existed.

This house was cursed, plagued with rumor and speculation.  We were in a desperate place needing housing since our house had sold and the home we intended to move into fell through.  4 days...we had 4 days to evacuate the house we poured our heart and souls into and move into...storage units...Mom and Dad's?  We didn't know what we were going to do, but God did.

I found this house on a new listing of homes available in our area and it had all kinds of problems including claims of foundation trouble and crazy cracks in the sheet rock to back it up, and serious pet damage.  Had we not been in such dire straights we never would have even looked.

After much prayer, wisdom from our Elders, and multiple foundation experts, we decided to go ahead and the seller allowed immediately occupancy.  Due to the possible foundation issues and a seller that was on the verge of foreclosure, we were able to purchase the house for 1/2 of it's value.  The house checked out, the rumors and speculation were wrong, the pet damage was repairable and we have been so incredibly blessed and thankful every day we've been fortunate enough to live here.

This house has it quirks like most.  We had a set of sliding glass doors downstairs that separated the living room from a space that was tiled and sheet rocked.  It was obvious the addition was added after the house was built in 2006, but not much after.  The siding and windows all matched the rest of the house.  This room became a storage space of sorts.  We called it the office but never really used it as such.

With homeschooling and Jared's ministry and my baking business, we decided to move Anneliese's bedroom down to this unused space and create a family office on the main floor (next to the front door) figuring it would get far more use.  I have always struggled with unused space.  If God has granted it, we should use it.  So we took this bizarre addition and created a little girls dream space, and created a beautiful office space for the family that has been in constant use since we completed it. 

Like most large families, we live on every penny we make.  So doing this switch was going to be a delicate dance.  Jared and I use the term "budget neutral."  Basically, we need to be able to sell things currently occupying the space in order to purchase things needed for the new space.  In the next two blogs you will see the office and Anneliese's room, the total cost of BOTH rooms was $67 due to frugal second hand shopping and selling things that were no longer needed.

In the end, we took a house that no one wanted and have created a beautiful home that we feel so privileged to own.  We have taken odd/awkward spaces in the house and created usable space that has increased the value.

It is just a house, I haven't lost sight of that.  I would put it on the market tomorrow if God called us away, but while we are here, I will do my best to be a good steward of the blessings He grants.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Speaking Love to the Littles

I started reading a new book today that was recommended by my sweet Alisa. 

The 5 Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell.

One of our children has a tough time expressing himself and it often comes out in anger and frustration so Alisa thought this book may shed some light on how to better show and receive love from our angry little bear (my words not hers).

As I read through the first several chapters it was very clear that a couple of our kids most definitely show and receive love through touch. 

Graham is very physically affectionate but he is also very clumsy.  So he will come running at me full speed for a hug or kiss and crack me in the nose or hug me so tight around the waist that he knocks me off balance.  I often will deflect his advances for fear of injury.  After reading I realized I need to initiate bear hugs, wrestling, pats on the shoulder, rubs on the head and the like to really speak to his little self. 

Brennan is also shows and receives love through touch.  He always flops down next to me and lays his head on my shoulder.  He loves to be hugged even in front of friends.  He'll even hold my hand in the middle of Wal-mart.  I'm going to have to work on allowing them to show me love through touch and also showing them love that way.  It is not my love language, and I actually really struggle with it. 

Tanner I'm still figuring out.  But he definitely seems to respond to quality time. 

As I'm working through the kids and trying to learn to love them better, I decided to ask them "How do you know I love you?"

Graham said, "Because you tell me billions of times a day"  This shows that he also feels loved through words of affirmation.

Brennan said, "because you work so hard and do nice things for us" That is acts of service, my favorite way to show love.  Fortunately he sees that as love and not just busyness.

Tanner told me he feels loved "because you tell me all the time and you take us neat places"  That is words of affirmation and quality time.

Anneliese said, "because you tell me and kiss me and you're my mommy"  Words of affirmation and touch.  

Elijah said, "Why...why are you asking?  WHY WHY WHY???" 

Ugh...the main kid I'm reading the book for and I get nuttin'.  Stink pot, guess I better keep reading.

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Beach Bathroom Redo

One of the biggest blessings of moving into this house is that we went from one shower to three.  For a family of 7, sharing one bathroom was a huge inconvenience and as the kids grew it would just have become a bigger issue.

The kids bathroom downstairs was one of the last rooms to receive some attention.  We've been here almost 3 years and it didn't even have a mirror above the sink until about 2 months ago.  It's been neglected and gross honestly.  The boys didn't mind, they loved having their own space.

While they were gone this week I decided to give it some much needed attention.  Here are some pics of it when we purchased the house.  This is a huge bathroom with a stand alone shower.  It's such a blessing!

I've never been shy of my love of the ocean.  I was 32 before I ever laid eyes on it and I've been in awe ever since.  It beckons me.  I was so in awe of God's majesty the first time I saw it I literally cried.  So I decided to make the boys bathroom a little reminder.

I started by painting the walls a beautiful blue that reminded me of the sky.  The tile is a perfect "sand."  We made markers with arrows that accurately direct you to the closest beach (notice how insanely far!)  Total Cost:  $16 1 gallon of paint; $5 for surf board rug; $13 for lumber; $5 for teal paint and a couple paint sponges.  Not bad for $39!  The boys were giddy. 
To the East

Thank you Gripp for cutting my "surf board" so I could paint it!

Our shells from our trip to Daytona

Perfect rug found on clearance for $5!!
6ft hand painted sign.  Just LOVE it

To the South



Sunday, July 6, 2014

Random Vacation Pics

Yellowstone

Yellowstone

Tanner loved all the Bigfoot signs

Waiting for Old Faithful

Love her

Old Faithful

Westcliffe, CO

Westcliffe, CO

Creede, CO

Near Gunnison, CO


Famfies

We had people offer to take pics of our family for us but the family selfie became our "thing."  I would just decline politely and say, "we have this weird thing we do."  Watch the girl, that's great stuff right there.

Yellowstone

Devil's Tower

Crazy Horse

Mt. Rushmore

Mt. Rushmore

Westcliffe, CO

Monuments

After leaving Deadwood we headed to Crazy Horse.

Jared insisted that we go and I really felt underwhelmed by the idea.  I'm so thankful he won out because it was really neat.

We went in and watched the movie explaining the how and the why.  My favorite part was the original artist had 10 children and even though they had been offered 10 million dollars from the government on two separate occasions, they turned it down both times.  They wanted to do the project privately and it is completely funded by donations and the proceeds of tourism.

The kids loved the video.  They showed the dynamite and explosions.  They were fascinated!

After Crazy Horse we tried to take scenic Needles Highway (see youtube video) over to Mt. Rushmore.

Unfortunately for us, a RV was just convinced the rules didn't apply to him and he went through and got his RV stuck in one of the tiny tunnels and we were forced to turn back.

So we turned around and headed to Mt. Rushmore on the main highway and unfortunately came from behind the mountain so the Presidents appeared in our rear view mirror as we made our way around the front of the mountain.  Regardless, it was beautiful and we all really enjoyed it.  We decided to take advice from our friend Ryan M. and treated the family to the best ice cream we've ever tasted.  We had Thomas Jefferson's original recipe for vanilla ice cream.  Very much worth the cost.  DELICIOUS!
Crazy Horse, The girl was sneezing :)

Crazy Horse

Mt. Rushmore

Best ice cream EVAH

Mt. Rushmore

They loved it